One of the main things I help my clients heal is childhood wounds.

But if you’re new to this material, you might be wondering,

“What exactly are childhood wounds?” and more so, “Why should I care?”

Well, before I go into answering those questions, let me share with you how I came about this information.

The year was 2010. This was when I was dating my “One” (who happened to be my Twin Flame and the guy who I married and later divorced).



During this time, we had a lot of wonderful moments, as well as a lot of weird disagreements.

I know, you might be saying,  “Blaire, what are you talking about… why were your disagreements weird?”

Well, since I am highly intuitive and have been practicing as an Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic, Medium for many years, I knew with our disagreements had something deeper was going on.

They weren’t superficial “Take out the garbage!” or “You never clean up after yourself!” type of arguments.

I knew there was something else going on between us.

Something I couldn’t put my finger on it. They just felt different… and yeah, weird.

Like there was something for me to learn from the experience.

Something for me to explore.


At the time, I was working with an Intuitive Healer.

So every time one of these “weird” disagreements would take place, I would schedule a session with my healer so I could get more insight as to what was going on.

I wanted to know exactly why these “weird” situations kept happening and I wanted to know what to do about them.

This is when I started learning about childhood wounds.

(although, granted, the full extent of how childhood wounds had effected my love life and my life didn’t sink in til several years later!).

In any event, this is when I started becoming aware of my own childhood wounds and healing them.

Then by the year 2012, I had gone so deep into healing my childhood wounds, un-expectantly, I had become enlightened.

So now that I shared with you how this work came into my life, let me share with you more specifically, what exactly are childhood wounds and why you should care about them.


Childhood wounds are wounds, traumas, upsets, heartbreaks, scars that you have from childhood.


Everyone on the planet has childhood wounds.


And everyone on the planet has UNHEALED childhood wounds. 


Childhood wounds don’t go away with time.


Childhood wounds don’t go away if you ignore them.


Childhood wounds don’t go away if you don’t know about them.


Childhood wounds don’t go away if don’t think about them.


Childhood wounds only go away when you take an active part in exploring, examining, and HEALING them.


And… childhood wounds never really go away… they just lose their power and control over you – they end up no longer ruling you and your life.

(that’s because you become aware of them, you have taken steps to heal your wounds, you know what pre-cautions to take, and you are then not as effected by them…

But you can always get triggered by them but the pain they inflict becomes less and less because as you heal the sting of them. They no longer bother you or effect your life like they once did.

Healing is a life long journey, but again, you get smart to the childhood wounds you have and know how to navigate them.)


Knowing what I know now about childhood wounds, and having the experience of healing my own, I think this is something that every person on the planet should be educated about and given assistance in healing them. (This is why this is part of my life’s work!)

Education about childhood wounds are should be mandatory for everyone on this planet.

As well as getting assistance in healing your childhood wounds.



Because childhood wounds NEGATIVELY effect EVERY AREA of your life.

Unhealed childhood wounds effect your love life and the partner you pick.

Unhealed childhood wounds effect your career and how successful you become.

Unhealed childhood wounds effect how much money you make (or don’t make).

Unhealed childhood wounds effect what you think about yourself.

They effect how you view the world.

Childhood wounds are the cause of your low self esteem.

They are the cause of your loneliness.

They are the cause of how much happiness (or unhappiness) you have.

Childhood wounds hold you back from reaching your full potential.

Childhood wounds hold you back from living the life of your dreams.

(They even effect the dreams you have for your life!)

Childhood wounds hold you back from living a bigger, more fulfilling life.

Childhood wounds are the cause of how you think about yourself.

They are the cause of how you think others view you.

They are the cause of how many friends you have (or don’t have).

They are the cause of how much fun you have (or don’t have) in your life.

They are the thing that causes you to be angry, frustrated, sad and resentful…. at people, places and situations in your life… that seem to be unrelated to your childhood…

…but are actually directly related… and so much more!



EVERY SINGLE PROBLEM you have in your life, I can tie back to your unhealed childhood wounds!

That’s why it’s so important to connect with a good healer, like myself, to help you become aware of what your childhood wounds are and help guide you in healing them, quick!

Childhood wounds can waste years of your life! I can help speed up your journey in clearing them.



Unhealed childhood wounds keep you trapped in a life where you are not living your full potential, your full dreams and not fully expressing yourself.

And that, plus so much more, is why it’s so important that you spend time, energy, effort and money on looking into healing your childhood wounds.

Unhealed childhood wounds make you think un-true thoughts about people, places and situations.

Unhealed childhood wounds severely limit your life.

And the sneaky thing about unhealed childhood wounds is that you don’t even realize how your life has been so negatively effected until you start going on the journey of healing them!

This information only comes to light when you start healing yourself… because only then is when you are able to set yourself free.

This is when the whole world opens up to you…. and it’s a magical, incredible, FREEING journey!



On this blog, I share some real life examples of how unhealed childhood wounds have effected my life.

If you’d like me to help you heal your childhood wounds, book a private consultation.

Or, you can learn on your own. I have plenty of products and programs to assist you.

Wishing you the best in love and life,
The Love Guru

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About The Love Guru:
Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic Medium, Dating and Relationship Expert, Marriage and Family Therapist, Horse Healer. Blaire works with high-powered executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities who’ve experienced career success, but their love life’s a mess.

If you’re single and fed up and frustrated, she can teach you how to partner with The Universe to easily attract The One to you. She’s also able to clear all of your love life blocks.

And if you’re in a relationship and unhappy and confused, she’ll help you get to the root of what went wrong and guide you in how to fix it or help you move on with grace and ease so you never have to repeat the same patterns or experience the same pain ever again.

She’s the creator and founder of a unique healing modality called “Heart Healing” which is a form of emotional healing that gives her the ability to open and heal your heart so you can attract the love, have the relationship, and the life you desire. Sessions are a combination of spiritual principles, channeled guidance and practical exercises.

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