About The Love Guru

Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic Medium, Dating & Relationship Expert,
Marriage & Family Therapist, Corporate Consultant, Leadership Coach & Trainer, Dog Psychic,
Horse Healer, Animal Communicator, Proud Awakened Warrior, De-Programmer, Teacher of Truth

Welcome, I’m glad you’re here!

Hi! I’m Blaire and I’m known as The Love Guru.

I have the gift to open and heal your heart, so you can attract the love, have the relationship, and the life you desire.

I work with high-powered executives, entrepreneurs, and celebrities who’ve experienced career success, but their love life’s a mess.

If you’re fed up and frustrated with being single, I teach you an easier, more natural way to attract The One. Say good-bye to dating apps, dating sites, singles events and matchmakers! There’s no need to be reliant on anyone or anything else when you have the power to draw love to you! My method is called, The Spiritual Way To Attract The One®

If you’re in a relationship, but unhappy and confused, I help you uncover exactly what went wrong so you can fix it or leave your relationship with grace and ease, never having to experience the same pain or pattern ever again. My gift is being able to heal relationship issues from the root!

The secret weapon that brings my clients so much success is a unique healing modality, of which I am the creator and founder, called “Heart Healing.”

It’s a form of emotional healing that helps you open and heal your heart, and clears your past relationship baggage, old thought patterns, sabotaging behaviors, childhood wounds, anxiety, anger, sadness, loneliness, frustration, resentment and fear.

With this breakthrough approach, I can clear and heal anything that is blocking you from attracting love and having a successful relationship.

I’ve been featured in over 100 media outlets worldwide: The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, CNN, MSNBC, Glamour Magazine, Montel Show, The Guardian UK and much more.​

Over 25 years on the spiritual path, as well as a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from an AAMFT (American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy) accredited university where I went to classes, in person, full time for 2 years.

With that said, it’s important to note that I do not practice therapy. Therapy is of the mind, whereas healing is of the heart and Soul. I do healing work and channel when I talk and guide people in releasing control and letting your heart and Soul guide you. I have found that the healing work I do is 100x’s more powerful than therapy and shifts people from the core within a very short amount of time, rather than spending years in therapy. Due to the deep and transformational nature of my work, if you partake in smoking, drinking, or the use of illegal drugs (including marijuana) on a regular basis, I can not accept you as a client at this time. Please get sober first, and then feel free to schedule a session. The same thing goes for if you are dealing with intense/extreme/persistent psychological issues. This is not a substitution for therapy.

I have studied angel communication, animal communication, kabbalah, the laws of the Universe, crystals, feng shui, shamanism, tantra, manifestation techniques, numerology, natural eating and natural remedies, epigenetics, chakra healing, the silva method, sedona method, chelation healing, reiki, pranic healing, innate releasing and many other healing modalities, emotional freedom technique (eft), medical intuitive, energy medicine, herbalism, sound healing, time travel, human design, access consciousness, and more.

I communicate with animals, angels, trees/plants, fairies, sea spirits, archangels, ascended masters, ancestors, people who have crossed over, guides, my star family (aliens) and other high vibrational galactic beings.

My Story

My Search To Find “The One”

Ever since I was young, I was determined to find the secret formula to find “The One”

I was convinced that there was a secret formula to find love, that if followed, would bring great success. The random advice of, “Date a lot. It’s a numbers’ game.” or “One day you’ll meet him,” seemed stupid to me and made no sense.

In the 2004, my answer arrived.

I was tired of looking for “The One” and had the idea to put up a website for friends and family as a way of telling them that it was now their job to find “The One” for me.

To my surprise, the private website went viral! Within a few days, I was featured in The New York Times, MSNBC and fielding calls from VH1 about having my own dating reality TV show.

I didn’t find my “One” through the website, per se, but through that experience The Universe taught me an easier, more natural, flowing way to draw love to me (I now call this method, The Spiritual Way to Attract The One®).

More details about this magical journey, plus tons of tips on how you can attract “The One” too, can be found in my book, “Do You Know My Husband?®”

Marrying My Twin Flame

After that relationship ended, my first healer entered my life.

I worked with her intensely every few weeks. Every session was more interesting than the last and she shared messages from my guides and did healing work on me (similar to the work I now do with my clients) to help clear layers of who I thought I was and uncover my True Self.

After a few years of working with her, I used my manifestation techniques to attract the man I married.

He was a sexy Englishman and our connection was incredible. There were flights back and forth to England. Holiday adventures to various locations in Europe and I was now living the glamorous life I’d always dreamed of. But around six months into the relationship, something felt off. At the time I couldn’t figure out what it was, so I continued.

There would be days of total happiness, love and bliss followed by days of disconnection, misunderstandings and boredom.

At that time, I was in graduate school studying to become a Marriage and Family Therapist, so I had access to tons of information on how to fix couples in distress, but none of those techniques worked! So, I dove deeper into my healing work and discovered that the problems we were having were related to both of our unhealed childhood wounds.

To fix this, I met with my healer more frequently, but my husband wasn’t on board.

He oscillated from mocking my attempts at trying to fix us, to claiming nothing was wrong, to telling me I was analyzing too much, to occasionally scheduling a healing session. After several more months of this, I finally told him I was done. I asked him to pack his bags and return to England. He left vowing to work on himself and become a better man.

Eventually, we got back together. Now he was on his spiritual path and I was deeper on mine. Plus, our soulmate relationship turned into a Twin Flame Partnership, but it was too late. I had outgrown him and our relationship, and we were now on different paths.

More about this in my upcoming book about intimate relationships/marriage and childhood wounds.

Healing My Childhood Wounds

When I met my Twin Flame, issues I had with my family members came to the surface.

At the time, I wasn’t aware of this synchronicity, but now I understand the connection. When one gets into intimate partnership, childhood wounds are amplified, mirrored and stirred.

At this time, I started noticing ways in which my family members would talk to me and treat me that I didn’t like. These were things I had accepted as normal or had tolerated in the past, but suddenly they were no longer okay. I started to protest.

And while this was going on within my family, I was having sadness, anger and rage towards my Twin Flame. Again, I wasn’t aware of this correlation at the time, but now it makes total sense. I went deeper into healing and clearing my childhood wounds, as well as breaking unhealthy patterns that have been passed down in my family from one generation to the next.

More details about this in my upcoming book about healing family karma and childhood wounds.

Breaking Out of the Matrix, Stepping Into My Divine Mission

In 2012, I noticed a post that one of my Facebook friends put up about James Holmes, The Batman movie theater killer. At the time, I thought what the post shared was crazy, yet I couldn’t turn away. I had to do more research. This took me down the “conspiracy rabbit hole” and broke me out of societal programming and conditioning.

Then in 2013, I was guided to bring my gifts to a larger audience. This is when God/Spirit asked me to discuss the George Zimmerman trial through my YouTube videos. What I was interpreting as happening in the trial ended up being very different than how others were viewing it. I noticed how many people were having very strong reactions to what had happened because of the wounding they carried in their Soul. This was interesting to me, because these unhealthy relationship patterns and childhood wounds I had just healed within myself.

My videos got tens of thousands of views and were causing quite a stir. My work had gone from helping people one on one to helping humanity through a mainstream medium.

When people are not healed, their whole outlook on life is tainted by that wounding and as a result they end up feeling like a victim, rather than in control.

I was now helping people heal and become empowered on a mass level and I created a show called, “The Awakened Warrior” where I provided my spiritual and psychological perspective on current news events for the purpose of awakening, educating, enlightening and empowering the collective.

More details about breaking out of the matrix, clearing societal programming and going deeper into truth, as well as receiving support in doing your mission to heal/help/fix this world, visit www.thealiennetwork.com

Becoming Enlightened

Another thing that happened in 2013 was I became enlightened.

My guides told me that because I had healed so many of my childhood wounds that I had become enlightened as a result.

This was not something I had set out to achieve, it just happened because I had done so much work on myself.

(At the time, I had to look up what that word meant because I was not familiar).

Re-Connecting with My Star Family

Now that I had a taste of doing my Divine Mission (which is raising consciousness and empowering humanity through my Awakened Warrior Show), I wanted more.

I kept telling Spirit that I wanted to reach more people with my message and make a bigger impact. This is when aliens came into my life.

In March 2014, I reconnected with my star family, which are high vibrational reptilian aliens from Sirius. I was not abducted or abused. Instead it was an eye opening and empowering re-connection that not only raised my kundalini, taught me about time travel, Indigos, shapeshifting and manifestation, but it also increased my psychic and healing gifts and put me into my power.

More details about this in my book series, How Aliens Put Me Into Power

Healing Family Triggers and Family Karma

The four years that followed the re-connection with my star family were not fun.

My star family brought me back to my family of origin – more specifically, they brought me back to my childhood home (with my parents, as they re-located me to the New York City area).

I had done my (childhood wounds) healing work on my own, but now they wanted me to clear all fears that were holding me back and release any remaining triggers having to do with my estranged family of origin. Although I had been on the spiritual path for 20 years by this time, this was by far the most challenging leg of my journey.

The journey of releasing your family’s karma is not an easy one and it’s actually quite painful at times. But I got through it. And although the pain was great, so are the rewards.

I not only ended up freeing myself, but my whole ancestral line.

More details about this in my book series, How Aliens Put Me Into Power

Moving from Karma to Dharma

This brings me to where I am on my journey now.

November 2019, Thanksgiving day weekend, Spirit told me that I was moving out of karma and into a place of dharma.

Once again, I had to look up what this word meant. I had heard the word, “dharma” before in passing throughout the years, but wasn’t sure of the specifics.

But as I had guessed, I was right – I’m not moving into a place of true purpose and service to the world.

I’m also actively creating a life that I love.


What I’ve realized over the years and through the spiritual experiences I’ve had is that I’m a teacher of truth and what I bring to you (and every one of my clients) is freedom.

>When you are bogged down with mental blocks, emotional baggage, sabotaging behaviors, limiting beliefs and more, you are living in a form of hell and are imprisoned.

You feel weak and like a victim.

But when you are clear of your mental and emotional gunk, childhood wounds, and programming, you step into freedom and start truly living.

I hope you enjoyed reading about my journey and I look forward to helping you with yours.

Schedule an initial consult to get started.

Wishing you the best in love and life,

The Love Guru

“It’s not very often that the real deal comes along, but Blaire is just that. As a relationship expert, her psychic abilities allow her to best help clients better understand where they are on the path to attracting their soulmate, as well as help them clear love life blocks that are keeping them single and in unhappy relationships. Having witnessed this new york city intuitive healer and spiritual teacher work, Blaire’s gifts make her a complete package.” – Mike Cavalli, Medium, Austria

“Blaire is truly compassionate and puts her all into what she does. She brings integrity, honesty and truth to all she undertakes.”
– Dr Eli Camp, Naturopath, Oklahoma

“Blaire is an idea generator and creative genius. Her MarryBlaire viral website was wild, wacky, fun, ingenious, clever, and creative. Yet, with all this talent, she doesn’t rely on ego; what I appreciate most is that she steps aside and lets “spirit” guide her.”
– John Felitto, Business Coach & Consultant, NYC

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