About The Love Guru
Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic Medium, Dating & Relationship Expert,
Marriage & Family Therapist, Corporate Consultant, Leadership Coach & Trainer, Dog Psychic,
Horse Healer, Animal Communicator, Teacher of Truth, Teacher of the New World Order, De-Programmer, Proud Awakened Warrior
Welcome, I’m glad you’re here!
Hi! I’m Blaire and I’m known as The Love Guru.
I have the gift to open and heal your heart, so you can attract the love, have the relationship, and the life you desire.
I work with high-powered executives, entrepreneurs, and celebrities who’ve experienced career success, but their love life’s a mess.
If you’re fed up and frustrated with being single, I teach you an easier, more natural way to attract The One. Say good-bye to dating apps, dating sites, singles events and matchmakers! There’s no need to be reliant on anyone or anything else when you have the power to draw love to you! My method is called, The Spiritual Way To Attract The One®
If you’re in a relationship, but unhappy and confused, I help you uncover exactly what went wrong so you can fix it or leave your relationship with grace and ease, never having to experience the same pain or pattern ever again. My gift is being able to heal relationship issues from the root!
The secret weapon that brings my clients so much success is a unique healing modality, of which I am the creator and founder, called “Heart Healing.”
It’s a form of emotional healing that helps you open and heal your heart, and clears your past relationship baggage, old thought patterns, sabotaging behaviors, childhood wounds, anxiety, anger, sadness, loneliness, frustration, resentment and fear.
With this breakthrough approach, I can clear and heal anything that is blocking you from attracting love and having a successful relationship.
I’ve been featured in over 100 media outlets worldwide: The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, CNN, MSNBC, Glamour Magazine, Montel Show, The Guardian UK and much more.
While most psychics are only able to see a
few weeks to 6 months into the future,
I’m able to see 10 years or more
and can guide you step by step in getting there!
I went to University of Miami (Coral Gables, FL) for undergraduate studies and graduated early with honors with a dual degree in Speech/Interpersonal Communications and Psychology.
For graduate school, I went to Nova Southeastern University (Davie, FL), an AAMFT (American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy) accredited university where I went to classes, in person, full time for 2 years. I graduated with straight A’s and received my masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT).
With that said, it’s important to note that I do not practice therapy. Therapy is of the mind, whereas healing is of the heart and Soul. I do healing work and channel when I talk and guide people in releasing control and letting their heart and Soul show them the way. I have found that the healing work I do is 100x’s more powerful than therapy and shifts people from the core within a very short amount of time, rather than spending many years in therapy, as most do with little to no results.
Due to the deep and transformational nature of my work, if you partake in smoking, drinking, or the use of illegal drugs (including marijuana) on a regular basis, I can not accept you as a client at this time. Please get sober first, and then feel free to schedule a session. The same thing goes for if you are dealing with intense/extreme/persistent psychological issues. This is not a substitution for therapy.
Over 30 years on the spiritual path. I have studied angel communication, animal communication, kabbalah, the laws of the Universe, crystals, feng shui, shamanism, tantra, manifestation techniques, numerology, natural eating and natural remedies, epigenetics, chakra healing, the silva method, sedona method, reiki, pranic healing and many other healing modalities as well as created my own healing called “Heart Healing, emotional freedom technique (eft), medical intuitive, energy medicine, herbalism, sound healing, time travel, human design, access consciousness, and more.
I’m a natural born healer, empath, intuitive, visionary (clairvoyant), and psychic medium. I communicate with animals (deceased and alive), angels, trees/plants, fairies, sea spirits, archangels, ascended masters, ancestors, people who have crossed over, guides, my star family (aliens) and other high vibrational galactic beings.
I’m also a time traveler, a shape shifter, a person who transforms and transmutes energy, people, and situations. I am an indigo warrior (starseed / spiritual warrior), a leader, teacher and healer of fellow indigo warriors, an incredible manifestor, and I’m able to facilitate instant healings. (I brought my dog back to life when he was dying. Book coming out soon).
My Story
My Search To Find “The One”
Ever since I was young, I was determined to find the secret formula to find “The One”
I was convinced that there was a secret formula to find love, that if followed, would bring great success. The random advice of, “Date a lot. It’s a numbers’ game.” or “One day you’ll meet him,” seemed stupid to me and made no sense.
In the 2004, my answer arrived.
I had an idea to put up a website for friends and family to help me with my search for a husband. I was ready to get married. The website said… “I’m Ready to Get Married. Do You Know My Husband®?” I found the HTML code for a countdown clock and added it to my home page for dramatic effect. My Goal… To Be Engaged by December 2004.
I was kidding about the countdown clock and the deadline. Thought it was fun, funny, and dramatic, plus I wanted my friends and family to take me serious in my search and help me find “the One” now! I posted some goofy pictures of me. “This is how I’ll look when I meet my husband”… “This is how I’ll look when kissing my husband”… “This is how I’ll look when my husband asks me to marry him.” Plus I added an audio clip, “I’ve decided I’m going to sing at my wedding. Hear my lovely voice.” I posted what I was looking for in a life partner and the website was all set.
Within 2 days of building the site I started getting hundreds then THOUSANDS of website hits and emails from all over the world!
I wasn’t even done designing the website. The stats went from 50 to 1200 hits the first day, then 1200 to over 5,000 the next. I told a few friends about the site while I was building it – told them not to tell anyone since the site wasn’t done – but someone must have “leaked it.”
Within 2 weeks I was on MSNBC telling my story and I was taking meetings with VH1 about doing my own reality show to find my hubby. I was also featured in the New York Times.
So…what happened?
I thought I needed to be more proactive in my search, so I dated many men. Men who I would have never considered, but thought I would give it a shot. (… maybe I really was being too picky?). I went on one date a week, plus attended one singles event each week. Thousands of people were rooting for my success. Thousands were inspired by my story. People all over the world were emailing me – men and women saying how they wanted to find their “One” too but were too afraid to share it with others and had no clue how to go about finding him/her.
My journey to find my “One” became much bigger than just me finding him… I wanted to keep inspiring others. I wanted them to believe it was possible. I didn’t want to let them down… everyone was rooting for my success. So I kept dating and putting myself out there. I kept a positive attitude through each boring date. I did tons of press interviews along the way… (over 100 Worldwide!) And continued blogging about my dates, the pain I was feeling, my frustrations, and my new realizations about love.
And then, one day… 2 months into my public search, The Universe stepped in and showed me the way.
I had three life changing relationships. One right after the next. All relationships that the Universe had brought to me. No effort on my part and all brought to me organically. Then I met “my One.” A man who loved me and I loved him. From day one, we were pretty much married. We loved each other, honored one another, had fun playing with one another, and moved in with one another. It was my dream come true.
The relationship lasted 1 1/2 years. Then the flow left our relationship and we broke up. But, I was a changed woman.. it didn’t affect me like other breakups. Why? Because I had found my true “One.” The “One” I was always looking for. I had found myself.
Through my journey I learned a lot about dating, love, and relationships. The way I went about looking for a mate and the way I had my relationship with him had changed forever. I learned that attracting love is easy. I learned how to flow with the dating process to bring “him” to me. I learned how to use my internal power to make things happen. I learned that love is all around me. I learned how to truly love myself. I learned that love is a journey. …and I learned that the “One” is sooo much more than just finding a man. Now, I teach others what The Universe taught me – an easier, more natural, flowing way to draw love to me (I now call this method, The Spiritual Way to Attract The One®).
More details can be found in my book, “Do You Know My Husband?®”
Getting Married
After that experience, my first healer entered my life.
I worked with her intensely every few weeks. Every session was more interesting than the last and she shared messages from my guides and did healing work on me (similar to the work I now do with my clients) to help clear layers of who I thought I was and uncover my True Self.
After a few years of working with her, I used my manifestation techniques to attract the man I married.
He was a sexy Englishman and our connection was incredible. There were flights back and forth to England. Holiday adventures to various locations in Europe and I was now living the glamorous life I’d always dreamed of. But around six months into the relationship, something felt off. At the time I couldn’t figure out what it was, so I continued.
There would be days of total happiness, love and bliss followed by days of disconnection, misunderstandings and boredom.
At that time, I was in graduate school studying to become a Marriage and Family Therapist, so I had access to tons of information on how to fix couples in distress, but none of those techniques worked! So, I dove deeper into my healing work and discovered that the problems we were having were related to both of our unhealed childhood wounds.
To fix this, I met with my healer more frequently, but my husband wasn’t on board.
He oscillated from mocking my attempts at trying to fix us, to claiming nothing was wrong, to telling me I was analyzing too much, to occasionally scheduling a healing session. After several more months of this, I finally told him I was done. I asked him to pack his bags and return to England. He left vowing to work on himself and become a better man.
Eventually, we got back together. Now he was on his spiritual path and I was deeper on mine. Plus, our soulmate relationship turned into a Twin Flame Partnership, but it was too late. I had outgrown him and our relationship, and we were now on different paths.
More about this in my upcoming book about intimate relationships/marriage and childhood wounds.
Healing My Childhood Wounds
When I met the man I married, issues I had with my family members came to the surface.
At the time, I wasn’t aware of this synchronicity, but now I understand the connection. When one gets into intimate partnership, childhood wounds are amplified, mirrored and stirred.
While in our relationship, I started noticing ways in which my family members would talk to me and treat me that I didn’t like. These were things I had accepted as normal and had tolerated in the past, but suddenly they were no longer okay. I started to protest.
This chaos was happening with me and my family members while at the same time I was having sadness, anger and rage towards my man. Again, I wasn’t aware of this correlation at the time, but now it makes total sense. I went deeper into healing and clearing my childhood wounds, as well as breaking unhealthy patterns that have been passed down in my family from one generation to the next. (This man and relationship was a catalyst for me to step into doing my divine mission. The core of my work in the world is helping people heal their childhood wounds and programming)
More details about this in my upcoming book about healing family karma and childhood wounds.
Breaking Out of the Matrix, Stepping Into My Divine Mission
In 2012, I noticed a post that one of my Facebook friends put up about James Holmes, The Batman movie theater killer. At the time, I thought what the post shared was crazy, yet I couldn’t turn away. I had to do more research. This took me down the “conspiracy rabbit hole” and broke me out of societal programming and conditioning.
Then in 2013, I was guided to bring my gifts to a larger audience. This is when God/Spirit asked me to discuss the George Zimmerman trial through my YouTube videos. What I was interpreting as happening in the trial ended up being very different than how others were viewing it. I noticed how many people were having very strong reactions to what had happened because of the wounding they carried in their Soul. This was interesting to me, because these unhealthy relationship patterns and childhood wounds I had just healed within myself.
My videos got tens of thousands of views and were causing quite a stir. My work had gone from helping people one on one to helping humanity through a mainstream medium.
When people are not healed, their whole outlook on life is tainted by that wounding and as a result they end up feeling like a victim, rather than in control.
I was now helping people heal and become empowered on a mass level and I created a show called, “The Awakened Warrior” where I provided my spiritual and psychological perspective on current news events for the purpose of awakening, educating, enlightening and empowering the collective.
More details about breaking out of the matrix, clearing societal programming and going deeper into truth, as well as receiving support in doing your mission to heal/help/fix this world, visit www.thealiennetwork.com
Becoming Enlightened
Another thing that happened in 2013 was I became enlightened.
My guides told me that because I had healed so many of my childhood wounds that I had become enlightened as a result.
This was not something I had set out to achieve, it just happened because I had done so much work on myself.
(At the time, I had to look up what that word meant because I was not familiar).
Re-Connecting with My Star Family
Now that I had a taste of doing my Divine Mission (which is to raise the collective consciousness and empower humanity by guiding people in healing their childhood wounds and programming), I wanted more.
I kept telling Spirit that I wanted to reach more people with my message and make a bigger impact. This is when aliens came into my life.
In March 2014, I reconnected with my star family, which are high vibrational reptilian aliens from Sirius. I was not abducted or abused. Instead it was an eye opening and empowering re-connection that not only raised my kundalini, taught me about time travel, Indigos, shapeshifting and manifestation, but it also increased my psychic and healing gifts and put me into my power.
More details about this in my book series, How Aliens Put Me Into Power
Healing Family Triggers and Family Karma
The four years that followed the re-connection with my star family were not fun.
My star family brought me back to my family of origin – more specifically, they brought me back to live with my parents in my childhood home.
I had done my (childhood wounds) healing work on my own, but now they wanted me to clear all fears that were holding me back and release any remaining triggers having to do with my estranged parents. Although I had been on the spiritual path for 20 years by this time, this was by far the most challenging leg of my journey.
The journey of releasing your family’s karma is not an easy one and it’s actually quite painful at times. But I got through it. And although the pain was great, so are the rewards.
I not only ended up freeing myself, but my whole ancestral line.
More details about this in my book series, How Aliens Put Me Into Power
Moving from Karma to Dharma
This brings me to where I am on my journey now.
November 2019, Thanksgiving day weekend, Spirit told me that I was moving out of karma and into a place of dharma.
Once again, I had to look up what this word meant. I had heard the word, “dharma” before in passing throughout the years, but wasn’t sure of the specifics.
But as I had guessed, I was right – I’m now moving into a place of true purpose and service to the world.
I’m also actively creating a life that I love.
Stepping Deeper Into Purpose
When con19 (“covid 19”) happened, I knew something was fishy.
By then I had been studying and teaching about the New World Order (The Elite’s plans to control and depopulate humanity) for almost a decade. I knew the government and media wasn’t telling the truth and I started speaking out.
I gave everyone in my town a mini education as to what was really going on and encouraged them to stand up to tyranny and not wear a mask or follow any of the mandates. I also frequently spoke to cops, made an appointment with the mayor and fire chief, and tried to educate them as to why they shouldn’t comply as they were being used to push forth agendas that weren’t for humanity’s highest good.
It was at this time that God told me I should save articles, video clips, government documents, and other information and to start creating trainings, as I would be teaching groups of people about the New World Order and showing them how they were programmed (brainwashed) to believe in covid and every agenda that followed. That I would guide people on how to step into their power, be part of the solution, and become powerful leaders who are here to change the world.
More details/sign up for leadership trainings on how to be part of the solution, visit Freedom Activist Classes
Truth, Freedom and Power
What I’ve realized over the years is that I’m a teacher of truth and that I bring to the world the gift of truth, freedom and put people into power.
When you’re bogged down with mental blocks, emotional baggage, sabotaging behaviors, limiting beliefs, childhood wounds, and outworn programming, you’re living in a form of hell and imprisonment.
Your life is not your own, you’re just looping pain and suffering.
Never quite feeling happy, calm, peaceful or fulfilled.
Instead, you feel weak and like a victim. And as a result you create circumstances that reflect this.
But when you do the work to heal and clear your mental, emotional and childhood wounds, and all the ways you’ve been programmed, you step into truth, freedom and power.
You end up no longer being tossed and turned by life’s mishaps or experiences, but instead you’re now able to powerfully create the life of your dreams.
You’re then able to truly start living.
You feel happier, more fulfilled, successful, peaceful, and powerful.
This is when the fun begins.
I hope you enjoyed reading about my journey and I look forward to helping you with yours.
Schedule an initial consult to get started.
Wishing you the best in love and life,
The Love Guru
“It’s not very often that the real deal comes along, but Blaire is just that. As a relationship expert, her psychic abilities allow her to best help clients better understand where they are on the path to attracting their soulmate, as well as help them clear love life blocks that are keeping them single and in unhappy relationships. Having witnessed this new york city intuitive healer and spiritual teacher work, Blaire’s gifts make her a complete package.” – Mike Cavalli, Medium, Austria
“Blaire is truly compassionate and puts her all into what she does. She brings integrity, honesty and truth to all she undertakes.”
– Dr Eli Camp, Naturopath, Oklahoma
“Blaire is an idea generator and creative genius. Her MarryBlaire viral website was wild, wacky, fun, ingenious, clever, and creative. Yet, with all this talent, she doesn’t rely on ego; what I appreciate most is that she steps aside and lets “spirit” guide her.”
– John Felitto, Business Coach & Consultant, NYC
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