Spirituality & Relationship Speaker

Relationships, Spirituality & Communications

When The Love Guru Blaire presents workshops, in addition to sharing spiritual principles and teaching practical tools and techiques, she’s also healing your audience of mental and emotional blocks and assisting them in manifesting their dreams. Attendees aren’t passive listeners, they will be actively learning and integrating new ways of looking at life and being. They’ll leave behind the struggle, the hard work, the frustration, and pain, while learning to create a life of their dreams.

  • Spiritual teachings
  • Channeled messages from Spirit that are specific to your guests and their current situation and struggles.
  • Heart healings to clear blocks in love live, relationships, career, finances, health
  • Practical exercises =attendees can apply right now to see fast results.

Attendees are asked to bring notepad and pen to take notes, as well as water, to help process information and energy shared, as well as to clear stuck energy, emotions and toxins.

Programs Offered

Uncovering My True Self

week 1
Releasing family, media, and society’s programming about needing to get married (for singles)

week 2
Releasing good girl/people pleasing programming

week 3
Releasing slut programming

week 4
Releasing “playing small” programming

week 5
Breaking patterns

week 6
Releasing chameleon survival programming

week 7
Releasing workaholism programming

week 8
Examining programmed beliefs from your childhood

week 9
Releasing programming around choosing money over health/personal life

week 10
Releasing “need to make something happen” programming

week 11
Releasing “there’s always a program” programming

week 12
Releasing “you’re always wrong” programming

week 13
Minding your own business (staying in your own energy field)

 

Dating Program

week 1
Healing pressure and programming around needing a man & to get married

week 2
Preparing yourself for love – getting clear on what you’re seeking

week 3
Preparing yourself for love – examining your story

week 4
Preparing yourself for love – stating what you want, not playing games.

week 5
Not getting distracted 

week 5
How to find a date with someone you actually connect with

week 6
How to screen potential dates

week 7
Protecting your energy field and privacy

week 8
Checking in with yourself – self care practices

week 9
Going slow

week 10
Releasing over-communicating

week 11
Listening to your intuition, rather than your ego or mind

week 12
Dating techniques

week 13
q&a open forum

week 14
Pulling back/releasing co-dependency

week 15
Asking for what you want, need, or wonder about in a relationship

week 16
Building a full life

Relationship Program

week 1
Understanding the purpose of relationships

week 2
Understanding what healthy relationships are vs unhealthy

week 3
Should you stay or go?

week 4
What to do with your partner angers or upsets you

week 5
Releasing co-dependency

week 6
Releasing abandonment wounds

week 7
Opening your heart to love

week 8
How to communicate with your partner (ask for what you want, need or wonder about)

week 9
Allowing yourself to be seen

week 10
Releasing false programming about partnerships and marriage

week 11
Developing a relationship with your inner child

week 12
Putting yourself first

week 13
Healing family drama, trauma, karma and pain

week 14
How to ask for what you want, need or wonder about in a relationship

week 15
Releasing over-functioning – stepping out of survival mode

week 16
Surrendering/trusting

week 17
Find someone new after breakup or divorce (how to NOT make the same mistakes)

Loving Yourself Program

week 1
What to do when something or someone upsets or angers you (noticing triggers)

week 2
Practices to become your own best friend

week 3
Connecting with your inner child

week 4
Speaking up for what you want, need or desire

week 5
Believing in yourself – going for what you want

week 6
Releasing perfectionism (Loving yourself as you are)

week 7
Releasing your negative thoughts and self criticism (spring clean your mental space)

week 8
Releasing gossip and drama

week 9
Projecting your energy and privacy

week 10
Getting out of overwhelm and over-scheduling (simplifying life)

week 11
Stepping into peace and gratitude (accepting an abundance mindset)

week 12
Taking time to nourish yourself through cooking

week 13
Sitting in silence

week 14
Releasing toxic people and situations (energy drains)

week 15
Accepting life on life’s terms

week 16
Not taking things personally

week 17
Dealing with failure, becoming resilient

week 18
Loving your body, pampering yourself

week 19
Listening to your intuition, releasing self doubt

week 20
Noticing your labels, building your own identity

week 21
Choosing yourself first

week 22
Realigning your vibration

Healing Your Heart Program

week 1
How to heal your heart after a breakup or divorce

week 2
Assessing lessons

week 3
Examining childhood wounds

week 4
Taking a break (taking the pressure off)

week 5
Finding forgiveness

week 6
“I hope we’ll get back together one day” – releasing obsessive thoughts

week 7
Releasing anger and sadness

week 8
Healing emotional baggage

week 9
Caring for your inner child

week 10
How to start over again

week 11
Releasing sabotaging behaviors

week 12
Raising your vibration to attract good things in life

week 13
Spring clean your mental space

week 14
Putting an end to the past

week 15
Welcoming in the new

week 16
Being your own best friend

week 17
Being okay when living in uncertainty

week 18
Developing an abundance mindset

 

Preventing Sexual Assault

week 1
Understanding healthy attention

week 2
Releasing sexual/slut programming from society and the media

week 3
Releasing social pressure and programming regarding posting on social media – Protecting one’s privacy. Appropriate and inappropriate posting 

week 4
Understanding the makings of a healthy relationship and healthy behavior

week 5
Building up self esteem

week 6
Loving self

week 7
How to build trust in relationships – communicating needs

week 8
Being aware of one’s surroundings

week 9
Understanding other’s motives

week 10
Understanding stalking and how it’s glamorized by the media

week 11
Hook up culture vs respect and loving relationships

week 12
Protecting one’s energy – warding off negative energy (listening to your body’s cues – handling anxiety and fear)

week 13
How to get out of sticky situations

week 14
Protecting one’s body/person

week 15
Being smart when going out drinking (friendships)

Workshops Offered

“The Spiritual Way To Attract The One” Manifestation Workshop

For single women and men who are sick and tired of being single… sick and tired of the dating scene and dating games… and who are looking for love everywhere, but not having much luck. This event is for you if you want to find “The One” and get married, now! At this event, The Love Guru is manifesting with you! In 2004, Blaire put up a website, for friends and family, stating that she wanted them to find “The One” for her because she was tired of looking for him herself. To her surprise, her private website went viral and within 2 weeks, she was featured in The NY Times, CNN, MSNBC and having meetings with VH1 about having her own dating show. Two months into the public search, she got exhausted. This is when the Universe stepped in and showed her the way and she manifested her soulmate! At this event, Blaire will share a few manifestation steps of her method, now called The Spiritual Way to Attract The One® and will manifest love with you!

Spiritual Healing Circle

A meditative, insightful, empowering event. Event is kept intimate (5 person limit), so everyone will receive a semi-private Spiritual Healing Session. Are you blocked in your love life, career, health, finances? Are your desires not manifesting fast enough? During your session, The Love Guru will go into your energy field and read, clear, heal and charge your chakras. She’ll share with you what emotions and experiences are stuck in your energy field and causing you to be blocked. You’ll release old emotions and experiences that are causing you pain and preventing you from moving forward in your life. You’ll also receive channeled messages (from your angels and guides) as well as practical exercises for you to take the healing further. Messages and healings individually will benefit everyone in the group. Come to get re-aligned with your highest path in life.

How Aliens Put Me Into Power

An interesting, fun, enlightening, mind-expanding event on how to connect with your star brothers and sisters from other dimensions! Do you know that you have a family that loves, adores and supports you in another realm? During this event, The Love Guru will share her story of re-connecting with Zeke, a Reptilian alien (who is also her star brother) from Sirius. You’ll learn how it happened, what he taught her, and more. Come to be activated and initiated into expanded level of consciousness. Develop your healing and/or psychic gifts. Learn about the experience of having a kundalini awakening and more! Warning: This event is out of the norm. It’s slightly weird and “out of the box,” therefore best for an audience who is curious and open-minded.

Dog Readings Party

Do you own a dog business? Or have a lot of dog-lovin’ friends? A dog party is an event where everyone gathers for lunch or snacks in one room, while readings take place in another. Or, if guests are open to it, everyone can observe one another’s readings. Although, please note, personal information about the human comes through.

Does your dog have emotional, mental or behavioral issues? The dog readings I do are self development in nature. Your dog gets a healing and reading where he or she will share messages about how to fix the issue he/ she is having and then once your dog is taken care of, he/she will start sharing messages about your life and where you’re blocked. Dog readings heal your dog’s issues, while at the same time healing your issues, too.

Relationship Readings, Teachings and Heart Healings – Open Forum

Stuck in your love life? Having love or relationship issues? Want some healing and spiritual guidance? This is an open forum event where The Love Guru will answer questions presented to her from audience members. Only select people will have their questions answered, but messages, healings and teachings will be applicable to everyone because this is how Spirit works. Come with a few clear and precise questions you want Blaire and Spirit to answer for you, so you are ready to be called on. Blaire does not make predictions about what’s going to happen in your life, as your future is not set in stone and is constantly changing. Instead she teaches you the tools and techniques on how to be the master of your life.

Fixing Your Daughter or Son’s Love Life

If your son or daughter is in a relationship with someone you don’t like or don’t think is good for her/him, it’s normal and natural to want to step in. But do you? And more so, should you? The Love Guru will take you on a journey of discovering why your son/daughter’s love life bothers you soo much (Hint – it’s not for the reasons you think). You’ll learn about childhood wounds and gain an understanding of how yours are being triggered in this situation and how to heal them. We’ll talk about the karma you and your son/daughter have with one another, you’ll release worry, and gain greater awareness about yourself, your son/daughter and this situation. As a result, you’ll be able to let go of control and become a more loving, conscious parent and person.

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I offer a complimentary 30-minute consult so I can learn more about your group, your event, and what you’re looking to accomplish.

Rave Reviews

Learn how to be true to you

Gain gratitude for your life path

Learn how to listen to your intuition

“Good to see you in the flesh last night.  Your teachings are deeply empowering and were a “mitzvah” to all who attended last night.”
– Andy, 40s, divorced

“Very inspiring class – thank you!  I’m going to attend your Prepare Yourself For Love Workshop next week too!”
– Sandy, 32, never married

“I love your story and your teachings.  Your energy is fantastic!”
– Judith, 50s, widowed

“Blaire is passionate about the work she does. It’s inspiring and her energy is infectious.”
– Female 20’s, NJ

“I really loved hearing your story and I really love your passion and how real you are.   It’s refreshing.  Thank you.”
– Koren, 33, Mahwah NJ

“The talk was a positive experience and rang true with many decisions in my life. I got a feeling of validation that being present is the best practice for me to continue.”
– Jennifer, 39, Bergenfield NJ

“Excellent and informative talk. Thank you for your time, love and energy.  I believe in angels and our own strong spiritual soul and power within. I feel excited but a bit scared too.  Thank you Blaire!”
– Dolores, 50, Wyckoff NJ

“Great!  Don’t should on yourself!”
– Patricia, 60, Wayne NJ

“Everything you said makes perfect sense… sometimes you just need to hear it!”
– Deborah, 52, Closter NJ

“I believe in everything Blaire said. I thoroughly feel that when one listens to their inner self and allows Spirit to guide them, they will find the success that is meant for them.”
– Linda, 51, Montvale NJ

“Awareness!”
– Stacey, 55, Franklin Lakes NJ

“Blaire’s simple message to do what feels good to be successful in business can be applied to many things in life.”
– Mary, 36, Hoboken NJ

“I enjoyed it!  I feel aligned – it is clear as you shared, it is easy when you lead with your heart.”
– Lois, 59, Paramus NJ

“I strongly believe different opportunities are presented at the right time and there was a reason for me to come this evening which is slowly unraveling.” – Kristin, 29, Hawthorne NJ

“Blaire’s talk helped me reflect on my connection and faith and trust in God and trust his direction in my business and to know that he will make it happen.” – Kim, 44, Woodcliff Lake NJ

“I’m feeling a bit more grounded than I was before the evening began. I am in the crossroads of responsibility and faith that the funds will come. I love the homework you gave of challenging engrained beliefs.” – Sarah, 39, Tenafly NJ

“I had a great experience as I have been very intuitive and learning how to listen to when Spirit does talk to me.  Lately I have been really trying to follow my heart in all aspects of my life.  Thank you.” – Jannette, 39, Glen Rock NJ

“I love everything Blaire had to say.  I’m feeling very positive and excited to let my spirit guide my business. Let the Spirit guide you (Love it)” – Wanda, 31, Jersey City NJ

“Blaire was awesome.  It was all I could do not to want to share my story because so much of what she
touched on has also been some of my struggles and I am free of a lot of the world bondage that we buy into.  Thanks for sharing.” – Donna, 50, Hawthorne NJ

“I wish the talk/interaction were a bit longer.  I would have liked more clarification of the timing of things coming to you. My feeling is that I am doing all that was discussed and I’m still noT getting where I know I should be.” – Michelle, 32

“I really like Blaire.  Blaire’s talk was enjoyable and of course enlightening.”

“It was fun and enlightening.”

“This was wonderful and insightful. The lightbulbs are going off in my head.
Thank you, Blaire, for your skillful facilitation and creating a safe and loving environment.
I’m looking forward upcoming talks.” – Arnie

“Blaire you are such a delightful person thanks for starting this group I met awesome people tonight.
I’m glad I attended!  See you next time.”

“Fun, safe, secure place to explore love and relationship issues with like minded people.
Blaire leads the group with skill and grace.”

“I attended Blaire’s Spiritual Beach Gathering because I was seeking divine guidance and truth about my spirituality.  I have been looking for a source offering the highest amount of truth, knowledge and wisdom to help ensure that I make the best decisions for my life as I possibly can. I have been reading from a handful of sources in the past months and Blaire has been the one in my opinion to offer what I have been seeking which is the honest truth, advice that works, lessons she can teach from her own life and her intuitiveness all while being personable.  The experience was a breath of fresh for me as the discussions and lessons where interactive and personalized and helped clear the fog of doubt I had about the paths I’m starting to take in life. I am looking forward to the next gathering and sessions with Blaire to truly start healing old wounds that still affect my relationships with others.”
– Sincerely, Hadarah

“Very interesting.  I actually would have liked it if we’d have had another 30 minutes.”

“I have practiced the exercise in the morning that you shared and I can tell you that I have been feeling SO good in my own skin, I can barely believe it… I am looking forward to being a regular at your group.” – Margarita

Speaking Reviews

“It was great having The Love Guru provide love and relationship advice at our Children’s Happy Face Foundations Charity Event benefitting Ronald McDonald House NY and Hudson Valley Chapter of Make-A-Wish Foundation. We’re always looking to add something new and unique to our events and having The Love Guru attend our event turned out to be a very cool concept that was well received by our guests!  They loved it and there was a line to speak with her! The Love Guru Is outgoing, funny, personable and gives great down to earth love advice with a psychic twist. We look forward to having her at more of our events!”
– David J. Lipson, Founding Member, Children’s Happy Faces Foundation
“I really loved hearing your story and I really love your passion and how real you are. It’s refreshing. Thank you.”
– Koren, 33, Mahwah NJ
“Excellent and informative talk. Thank you for your time, love and energy. I believe in angels and our own strong spiritual soul and power within. I feel excited but a bit scared too. Thank you Blaire!”
– Dolores, 50, Wyckoff NJ
“Blaire’s simple message to do what feels good to be successful in business can be applied to many things in life.”
– Mary, 36, Hoboken NJ
“I strongly believe different opportunities are presented at the right time and there was a reason for me to come this evening which is slowly unraveling.”
– Kristin, 29, Hawthorne NJ
“I love everything Blaire had to say. I’m feeling very positive and excited to let my spirit guide my business. Let the Spirit guide you (Love it)”
– Wanda, 31, Jersey City NJ
“I’m feeling a bit more grounded than I was before the evening began. I am in the crossroads of responsibility and faith that the funds will come.
I love the homework you gave of challenging engrained beliefs.”
– Sarah, 39, Tenafly NJ