Family Healing

Heal Family Relationships

Release Drama, Chaos, Confusion and Pain

 

Has your relationship with family members become stressful?

No matter what you do, does nothing change?

You try to be caring, loving and compassionate but your words and actions are just ignored.

How can you get back to that loving feeling you once felt with your family member(s)?

And how can you heal the trauma, drama, chaos and pain that has already been done?

 

Family Healing Sessions are an alternative to traditional talk therapy.

Although I am trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist, I don’t practice therapy and instead use my psychic and healing gifts to help people heal.

I am a Spiritual Teacher and Intuitive Heart Healer and I have found that by working with Spirit and sharing channeled messages, heart healings, and intuitive guidance, that long-standing issues get resolved, fast.

The emotional healing I do gets to the heart of the problem and assist my clients in starting the healing process within the very first session.

No more wasting years in therapy.

Or wasting years of your life going back and forth on a “I love you, I hate you” fighting merry go round.

I save individuals, couples and families years of drama, trauma, chaos and pain which only serves to create a bigger wedge in your relationships and your life.

If family trauma is given time to persist, it can end up breaking your bond forever.

And the trauma experienced, along with the sadness, anger and pain can cause irrevocable damage to the Soul of everyone involved, as well as negatively effect the trajectory of everyone’s lives.

This is not to be taken lightly and I don’t share this to scare you, but I have seen this within my own family, as well as many others.

Family drama should not be allowed to go on for long periods of time or to fester.

It’s not something that goes away on it’s own and if it’s ignored it will only grow into a bigger, uglier animal.

The point is, all of this pain is unnecessary and can be healed when it’s a much smaller problem.

And it can also be healed when it’s a bigger issue, but understand that then there will be layers of pain with all parties involved.

During Family Healing Sessions, every one is listened to and heard.

No sides are taken.

No one is ganged up on.

Everyone is given a chance to speak without going on with long stories.

Everyone gets individual guidance within the group environment.

Everyone experiences healing.

And everyone gets exercises to do in between sessions.

(These exercises are usually journaling related where everyone will more fully get to know and connect with themselves. This is one of the paths we’ll take to healing the core of your pain)

 

The intention of sessions is to bring healing to the family.

This includes healing to every member of the family, as well as the family as a unit.

For healing can’t take place when one person is told to “stop this” or “do that” – this is a holistic approach to it all.

Our intention is to heal family drama.

To stop the hurt.

To release the pain.

To heal family trauma.

To release the unhealthy patterns and stop them from continuing to be passed down the family line.

And to clear karma.

All of this (or some of it, as I’m guided) will be discussed in detail during your session.

 

Family relationships are difficult.

They are layered.

They are confusing.

They are complicated.

And there is usually a lot of pain.

Pain from how you are currently interacting with one another.

Pain that is brought in from your own childhood.

Pain from your past lives with one another.

And pain that has been passed down your generational line.

These are complex concepts that you will learn more about during your sessions.

The point is, Family Healing Sessions are not like typical “family therapy” where one person is told to “stop doing this” or “start doing that.” Deeper reasons for why you are interacting with one another the way you are, the trauma, the drama and the pain will be uncovered so you get a Soul’s understanding of why you are going through what you are going through and how to bring resolution and an end to all the pain.

In sessions, we’ll look at your family relationships through the lens of Spirit.

We’ll explore the bigger reasons as to why this or that is happening and how it can be resolved.

You and your family members aren’t brought together by chance.

There’s a deeper meaning to it all.

You can continue to go around in circles your whole life with your family – tolerating one another, ignoring one another or in fights galore.

Or you can partake in Family Healing Sessions and understand what gifts lie within your interactions and gain an understanding and love that can be deeper than you’ve ever experienced between one another before.

Heal drama, upset, chaos and pain.

Release childhood wounds, karma, generational patterns, and more.

Now, you might be wondering how I got involved with this…

Here’s some of my story:

I have been on and off estranged from my family since 2011.

This was a secret that I kept quiet from others and was ashamed about for many years.

It’s also an experience that has caused me a lot of heart-wrenching pain.

It’s an experience that changes who you are to the core.

I remember when I first realized I was estranged, I reached out to a community I found online.

It was a random forum I found on the internet and I remember the first line in my post had said, “I guess I’m estranged from my family.”

Writing those words was very strange to me. It was a feeling of disbelief and shock. I was confused. Like an out of body experience. “Is this what my life had become?”

I had grown up in a good home in a wealthy area.

I had gone to a good school, took art classes, dance classes, self development and advanced classes growing up.

I had gone on plenty of family vacations. We ate out all the time.

Anything I wanted growing up, I would have. By all means, we looked like a happy family.

I always thought I had a good upbringing, that we were happy… that I was happy…

My mom always told my brother and I how lucky we were to have such a close knit family.

But yet, here I was.

Separate from them now.

There had been disagreements over the years, but I couldn’t comprehend how my life had come this.

And out of everyone who would be “estranged” from their family, I was in love with family… I loved holidays…

How was it that now I was the one who was separate from the rest of the bunch?

For years and years, this boggled my mind.

So even though the estrangement came in 2011, I can trace my issues with my family, more specifically, my parents, back to when I was young.

I always shouting matches with my father.

He never listened to my requests or upsets and through the years my mom would just sit back and let whatever fighting matches went on with my father to continue.

Always siding with him, even though I had never done anything wrong.

My relationship with my mom was nothing better.

One minute we would be close. I loved hanging out with my mother. But then the next, I would feel like she hated me and didn’t want me around.

To a little child to have these dynamics of push-pull, closeness and distance, was very confusing and messes with one’s self worth and one’s mind.

As one gets older and wiser, the anger, sadness, shame and rage builds and it starts to come out.

This “awakening” that I had as to what had been going on within my family dynamics happened around the time I had met my Twin Flame (the man who I briefly married).

At the same time, I was in graduate school studying to be a Marriage and Family Therapist.

Of course there is more to the story (there always is, when it comes to these situations), but for now, I will leave it at that.

Over the last 9 years, I have had on and off re-connections and disconnections with my parents.

I have gone through deep explorations of myself, of my childhood, of my family’s wounds, of my family’s generational patterns and of karma.

I have dedicated (not willingly and most of the time very upset about doing the work related) almost half of my life to healing these dynamics.

I’m not going to say that things are perfect with me and my parents, but they are much better for me because through the healing process, I have found a deep love, deep understanding, deep courage, and deep faith within myself.

This is a journey that involves another (or many others), but its focus is on yourself.

I am grateful to say that I am now at a place of peace.

I understand what has happened between us and what is going on between us from a higher perspective.

I have cleared my family’s karma.

I have broken unhealthy generational patterns so they won’t be passed down to another.

And I have stepped more into my power.

We all have our part in these patterns and in the healing of them, and I can only speak of my part in this journey.

After all, we are only responsible for ourselves.

My intention in offering this service is to do my divine mission and offer more of my gifts to the world.

To bring healing to you and your family.

To make this experience less painful.

And to help you get to a place of clarity and peace.

Purchase:

Session is 50-75 minutes. Sometimes we go over, so plan accordingly. Sessions have a flow to them and come to a natural end. I end the session when Spirit says so and if you’re sensitive to energy, you’ll feel it too. By then you’ll be filled up with information, guidance, healing and you’ll know exactly the next steps are for you to do. Block out 2 hours for your session so you can properly process what was shared afterwards.

Come to the session by yourself or with family members.

$850

Please Note: Due to the deep and transformational nature of my work, if you partake in smoking, drinking, or the use of illegal drugs (including marijuana) on a regular basis, I can not accept you as a client at this time. Please get sober first, and then feel free to schedule a session. The same thing goes for if you are dealing with intense/extreme/persistent psychological issues. This is not a substitution for therapy. If I have to stop a session due to your noncompliance with the foregoing, you will not be refunded. Notwithstanding the foregoing, I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone if in my opinion they would not benefit from my services.

Phone/Zoom Sessions:

I will call you when it’s time for your session or we will meet at the same time on Zoom. It’s best that everyone call or zoom in on their own phone or computer.

In Person Sessions:

For NYC Sessions: Session takes place at my office in Midtown West. The exact address will be given upon booking.

For Northern NJ Sessions: Session will take place at your office or home (Bergen County).

Once You’ve Signed Up:

You’ll be brought to a page to download an Intake Form. Fill out the form and email it back to me, along with 3 days and times you are available to have your session within the next week.

If you’ve signed up for a session with family members, it’s suggested that you all fill out an Intake Form. This way I can get your individual perspectives as to what’s going on. (We’ll go in depth into this during your session).

On my end (a little behind the scenes for you 🙂 ) once I get your form, I will spend some time reviewing it before your session and tapping into your energy. While I’m doing this, Spirit talks to me and starts telling me what’s going on in your life, what’s blocking you and how I can help you. Many clients say they feel better as soon as they sign up for a session. That what was bothering them, no longer is an issue. That they feel clarity and peace. If you’re sensitive to energy, you may feel me energetically working/healing you.

 

Cancellation Policy:

All sessions are non-refundable and your session must take place within 14 days of purchase date, otherwise you forfeit your purchase and no refunds will be given. Please note: this is 14 regular days, not business days. For example, if you purchase your session on June 1, your session must take place by June 14th, unless I am unable to fit you in for a session during this time span. You are allowed 1 reschedule of your session date, otherwise your session will be forfeited and no refunds will be given. 

 

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The information, products, and services provided on the Site and by the Company are for general interest in spirituality and entertainment purposes only; nothing herein is intended or implied to serve as medical, therapeutic, or psychological advice, treatment or services. Company is not responsible for decisions made by Client as a result of the intuitive, coaching or healing work and any consequences thereof. The work the Company provides is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or psychiatric diagnosis, treatment, or advice. Company does not provide medical, health, or psychotherapy services. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified mental health professional with any questions you have regarding your mental health situation or medical condition. That is the only way proper psychological or medical advice can be provided. Never disregard professional mental health advice, medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard, read or seen on the Love Guru website or in products, sessions, programs or information provided by Blaire herself. If you suspect that you have a health or therapeutic issue, please consult a licensed doctor, therapist or counselor. If you are having an emergency, call 911.

 

Preparing For Your Session:

To get yourself ready for your session, it is suggested that you spend some time by yourself (separate from family members) outside and in silence to help settle your energy, clear your worries from the day and get you clear and ready for our time together. The more open and receptive you are, the clearer the messages will come through. Spirit/the messages and guidance that comes through works off of what you are open and receptive to hearing, so the more ready for the session you are, rather than scattered or in a rush with your mind on a million things from work/home, this will be better for you.

Bring a notepad and a pen. Because sessions are healing, make sure you drink a lot of water during the session as well as afterwards. This will help you clear blocks and process emotions.

During your session, take notes. Spirit wants you to be pro-active and learn how to be empowered in your love life. (No recordings of the sessions allowed – Spirit’s orders. Feel free to ask Blaire why).

After your session, and over the next few days, read over your notes several times. Each time you do, you’ll notice new information and it’ll help you go deeper. In between sessions, journal about the information that was shared.

If you are having an in person session, please do NOT wear any cologne/perfume or scented moisturizer, body wash, hairspray, etc. I am very sensitive to smell (it’s a psychic thing) and I will not be able to be near you if you have any fragrance on.

 

After Your Session:

After your session, take it easy, and drink a lot of water to clear the toxins that were released.

It’s suggested that you stay away from socializing and loud music for the rest of the day. Rest, draw, sing. Your body may need to release, so if it has to, let yourself cry.

Stay away from drugs, alcohol, tobacco/marijuana or pharmaceuticals (if you can do without).

It’s best that you look at the time after your session as a special time just for yourself.

Bask in the energy that you just received and process all that was shared. Journal.

Listen to soothing music. Sit in silence. Look at candles burning. Think. Be. Go to sleep early that night and for the next few days you may need more hours of sleep. This is all normal.

Be easy on yourself for the next few days, things are shifting within you.

Read through your notes and do the assigned exercise.

 

Moving Forward:

In order for you to heal your family issues, you’re going to need ongoing teachings, healings, guidance and support.

Because of this, it’s suggested that you enroll in a 3-month program after your Initial Consult.

One session builds on the next and during your Initial Consult, a lot of energy will be stirred up. In order to keep this healing energy growing, enroll in a program within 1 week or less of your Initial Consult.

Personalized programs start at $15,000.

“The session we had was the seed for me to explore a new dimension… I have thought often about what you shared and I will do my utmost to preserve and enhance the relationship with my son…”

“I chose Blaire as my Teacher and Healer but it was more like she was brought to me by the Universe. It was a feeling that she was the one who would be able to help me.

Through the Heart Healing Program I learned and continue to learn some painful things about myself and my life, however I refuse to live in my ‘Old Story.’

I learned that I carry a lot of pain from my childhood. That my mother has been hiding things about my past. That I was sexually abused in some way. I learned most of my ‘friends’ were really not friends. I realized how I try to impress others to gain self worth and that I over-ate for comfort. I realized that I spent too much time helping others and not helping myself. And that I hung onto bad relationships because I was afraid to face myself.”

Get In Touch

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guru at loveguru dot net

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