How To Attract The One Book

Do You Know My Husband?

The Unexpected Journey of How The Love Guru Found The One

Two books in one: an entertaining biography that reads like a diary-style, romantic comedy, and a self-help, dating guide for those looking for love in the digital age.

Published June 2014

348 pages


When Blaire Allison put up a website for friends and family to help her find a husband, she never thought it would go viral. With a countdown clock to find a husband within six months, a blog, press interviews, and people all over the world emailing to help in her quest, Blaire publicly searched for The One. Would she find what she was looking for?

Readers who join Blaire on her unexpected journey will find themselves on a journey of their own. A journey to heal, grow, and learn. To become more loving, self-actualized, and find one’s true self along the way.

This book is for anyone wondering if we’ve been misled by society about what the search for The One should look like. It’s for those who are actively looking for The One, for those who think The One may never appear, or for anyone wanting to learn more about their own relationships.

This book is great for both women and men, all sexual orientations because the book shares spiritual principles that are applicable to everyone.

This book includes 30+ additional pages of dating & relationship Q&A from readers of my website and who were witnessing my journey at that time. This’ll give you the ability to further understand the teachings and concepts I am guiding you through.

The Love Guru’s books are healing books.

They are encoded with energy, insight, spiritual guidance, and wisdom that awakens, heals and helps you shift and change. All this simply by the act of reading them and thinking about them. On one level, you can read her books as if they are a delightful story. But if you would like to take the teachings and healing further, then start applying the teachings into your own life (and use the book as a self-help, dating/relationship guide. To do this, it’s suggested that you journal about your thoughts and feelings throughout the book, as well as the experiences that are sparked within you, and how you can relate them in your life, while you are reading her books.

Enjoy the books for the fun of it, and enjoy the expansion of your consciousness for enlightenment.

This is BOOK 1 in The Love Guru’s Book Series

For maximum growth and understanding, it’s suggested that you start with BOOK 1 and continue with the books in order. The books start “simpler” and and go deeper with spiritual concepts, teachings and healings. So when you start with BOOK 1 and go down the line, you’ll grow right along Blaire’s shifts and changes. Plus from one book to the next, there are mentions of concepts, situations, ideas that happened in an earlier book. They all link together.

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Get The Book To Learn How to Partner with the Universe to Find “The One”

It’s the true story of what happened to me!

Learn how to be vulnerable in your love life

Get relationship help and marriage help!

Clear blocks in your love life

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Learn how to date the spiritual way

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Book Reviews

"I'm done with your book!  In total....I read it cover to cover in under 3 days flat.  I was HOOKED!!!  Your writing is so authentic, witty, and easy to relate to!"


"An authentic and inspiring journey...

I could see and feel the deep transformation in Blaire's state of mind.

Her journey is rich in teachings."

"...a fun, light-hearted story, but don’t be fooled into thinking it is just another fun romp for romance! Blaire’s story is fascinating, and I couldn’t put it down."


"Delightful and insightful. I think at some point we all have a bit of despair about not being able to find someone who "completes" us..."



...This book is not just about the dating scene. It's about self-love, the courage to be vulnerable, to be able to step away from society's beliefs and to live from your heart!"


Get In Touch

Located in Northern NJ/NYC.

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Questions? Email me at guru at loveguru dot net

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Break Out of the Dating & Relationship Matrix

You’re not supposed to go about finding love or being in a relationship like you’ve been programmed (brainwashed) to do by movies, tv, and society.

I break you out of the dating, love, relationship, and life illusions you’ve been lead to believe, and instead, align you with truth.

This is a journey of healing all the ways you’ve been programmed by your family, society, and the media, as well as healing your mental, emotional, and childhood wounds.