About The Love Guru Blaire

How I Became The Love Guru

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Creator and founder of Heart Healing, which is a form of emotional healing that opens and heals your heart so that you can attract the love, have the relationship, and the life you desire.


Ever since I was young, I was determined to find the "secret formula" to find "The One"

I was convinced there was a certain way you went about finding love.  The advice of "go out and date a lot" or "one day you'll just find him" never seemed to make sense.  It felt random and disempowering.  So I went on my search.  I read every dating book I could get my hands on, searched out teachers, studied videos and spoke to everyone I could to get their ideas on the subject.

It wasn't until the Summer of 2004 when my answer arrived.

By this time, I was fed up and frustrated in my search. I had done it all and nothing seemed to work. I was able to help others find love, but couldn't get it right for myself.  I prayed (and did some other stuff, which you can read about in my book, Do You Know My Husband?®) and the answer came.  The idea was to put up a website. I named the website www.marryblaire.com (Marry Blaire... you know, will you marry me?).  On the site, I put up my bio, what I was looking for in my husband, posted pictures of myself, and boldly stated "I'm Ready To Get Married - Do You Know My Husband?"®  It clearly stated to friends and family that I was no longer looking for my husband myself, that it was their responsibility (or burden) to do it for me.  As a fun addition to the website, I added a countdown clock showing that it was my goal to be engaged by December 31st 2004 (which was in 6 months).  I thought the countdown clock was a great idea because I not only wanted to add urgency to my situation, but because I wanted my friends and family to take me seriously -- and find me my husband, now.

Even though my website was meant to be private, and just for friends and family, it went viral.

Within two weeks I was on MSNBC, The New York Times and was featured in many newspapers, magazines and radio shows all over the world (over 100 press features).  What started off as a fun project and a way for me to be more pro-active turned into a magical journey I never expected.  Now people all over the world were emailing to help me in my search.  To increase my chances and try something new, I decided to go on one date and to one social event each week. Then every few days I blogged about my dating experiences as well as my realizations.  But what happened is that two months into my search I was working even harder than I was before to find love and I was totally exhausted.  So, once again, I prayed for guidance.  

This is when The Universe stepped in and showed me the way.

I listened to the guidance and followed.  What I was told to do seemed really simple and somewhat silly.  I didn't know if it would work or not, but it was fun and made me laugh, so I did it.  What ended up happening is -- I attracted "The One!"

I learned an easier, more natural way that brings "The One" to you, rather than having to go out and look for it.

This is what I now call "The Spiritual Way To Attract The One"® and teach to my clients.  I ended up using this method and very quickly attracted and dated one soulmate after the next.  Three life changing relationships -- all relationships that The Universe effortlessly and magically brought to me -- with no hard effort on my part.  And then I connected with my "One" -- the man I thought I was going to marry.

I got into a relationship with a man who loved me and I loved him.  It was a dream come true.
The relationship lasted 1 1/2 years and then the flow left our relationship and we broke up.  But surprisingly the breakup didn't affect me like others had in the past.  I was a changed woman and had found my true "One" -- the one I was always looking for -- I had found myself.
You can read more about this experience in my 1st book, "Do You Know My Husband?"®

After That Experience, I Went Deeper Into My Spiritual Studies -- And Discovered Healing.
My life had already become magical through all the things I learned from the marryblaire.com website, but now my life took on a deeper dimension.  I was discovering things about myself and about life that I have never thought about before and I was fascinated.  

Then after a few years of intense healing, I used my techniques and drew in the man I was to marry.
We were both on vacation in Florida.  He was from England, I was from New Jersey, and we met on his last day there.  By that time, my psychic gifts were developed (this is something that naturally happens when you work with me and heal yourself) and that day as I was wandering around town wondering what to do, my guides told me to go to one of the hotels in the area to hang out by the pool and pretend I was a tourist.  It sounded like a fun idea, so I followed and as soon as I stepped into the pool area, there he was.

Our eyes connected and there was this magical energy between us.  

We hung out that night and two weeks later, he was back in America, this time New Jersey, to visit me (he was a gentleman and stayed in a hotel).  That week he wined and dined me as we explored New York City.  Then over the months that followed, there were frequent visits between countries and he showered me with gifts, fancy dinners, and vacations across Europe.  It was a fairytale dream come true.

He was generous, romantic and showered me with love.  We also had an incredible connection.
Without even trying, we naturally communicated telepathically.  When we did talk, we knew what the other one was going to say and we finished one another's sentences.  We naturally knew how to meet one another's needs and wants.  When we held one another's hands, looked at one another, or hugged there was this deep "soul knowing" and a feeling of being "home."  It was incredible.

We would be separated by over 4,000 miles, yet we could feel each other's thoughts.

We would energetically cuddle at night (and could feel one another's bodies), and on a fun and funny note, we would intuitively end up reaching for the same color clothing when we got dressed every day.

But around seven months into the relationship, I started realizing that something was off between us.
Things seemed to be turbulent each time we reconnected for the first few days.  Being separated for weeks and then thrown together for huge blocks of times was jolting.  We were out of alignment and it triggered all sorts of issues.  There were cultural differences, relationship differences, communication differences, family differences and so on.  The relationship was up and down, loving and rocky, until a few days passed and we got into sync with one another.  

Since I loved him more than I had ever loved anyone before, I was determined to figure out what was wrong.
When I spoke to a close married friend, she said that the ups and downs were normal and that I'd get used to it.  She suggested that I give him space but her advice was unacceptable.  I knew this wasn't normal.

At the time, I was in graduate school studying to become a Marriage and Family Therapist.

This gave me access to tons of information, tools and techniques on how to fix couples in distress.  I was a diligent student and tried every technique to get our relationship to the place of smooth sailing 100% of the time.
But the therapy techniques didn't work.

I Realized That Our Relationship Brought Up Deep Childhood Wounds For Me.
So I went deeper into healing myself.  I asked my man to do the same, but he refused.  As I got more clarity as to what was being triggered within me (and him), I tried to share the realizations with him but he wasn't interested.  He mocked my attempts to fix us, told me I was analyzing too much, and that everything was really good between us -- better than most.  He pointed out all the ways our relationship was amazing and since I agreed, I let things continue as they were.  But inside I was still struggling.  I flip flopped between accepting him as he was, to begging him to please see my healer so he could get on his spiritual path and heal himself too.

The back and forth visits between countries only seemed to make things worse.
Although it was fun and exciting to travel, seeing him non-stop for big blocks of time and then us being separated for many weeks made me sad and confused.  We had periods of great love, joy, synergy and bliss and then disagreements would happen all over again.  I constantly wondered, "what was really going on here?"  I knew this wasn't normal but I couldn't exactly pinpoint the issue.  I had trouble seeing clearly.  Everyone told me how wonderful our relationship was, but I wasn't happy as often as I thought I should be.  When I asked my man if he was worried about the fate of our relationship, he assured me that things would get better when we were settled in the same country.  He said that we were under stress from constantly being apart and the pressure of a new relationship.  He said that in time we would get used to one another and that our communication and cultural issues would subside.

I trusted his assessment and at the same time questioned if that was the real issue.
After over a year of this emotional up and down, my logical side stepped in and I decided that the only way I would ever know if things would normalize between us is if we got married. I knew this could have been looked at as foolish thinking, but at the time, it was my only solution.  I wasn't ready to let him go or to to say goodbye to our relationship, so I stepped forward, and hoped and prayed that this would help things stabilize between us.

In 2011, We Got Married.
But it was too late.  Within five months, when things didn't improve, I couldn't take it anymore.  His snide remarks, his moodiness, his withholding nature and our constant disagreements put me over the edge.  Almost every day I was in terrible emotional pain and I couldn't continue this way any longer.  I finally gathered up my courage, told him it was over and asked him to pack his bags and return to England.  Although deeply heartbroken, he left, but said that he was not giving up on us.  He told me that we'd reunite in six months, that I could come out to England when I finished my graduate studies and I would see how much he had changed.  He vowed to work on himself, do self growth and healing, and promised to become a better man.  

It was during this time apart that our soulmate relationship turned into a twin flame partnership.
He kept his promise, had gotten into meditation and had several sessions with my healer.  Now the both of us on our spiritual path, our love had brought things together.  Connecting with your Twin Flame is the highest form of a spiritual relationship and it's the most connected you will ever feel to a partner.  

And as he had predicted, we reconnected a few months later.
I flew to England and it was wonderful to see him again.  It was loving, comfortable and familiar.  It was also boring and unfulfilling.  Here he was now on his spiritual path, but I had gone deeper into mine.  This caused me to outgrown him and our relationship -- and I no longer wanted to be with him.  I was now a completely different person and I had a new vision of what I wanted from a partner and from a relationship.  We had grown apart and were now on different paths.  The relationship wasn't meant to last.
My book about this experience will be released soon.

Then In 2013, I Became Enlightened.
I didn't set out to make this happen.  It happened because I had done so much healing on myself -- on my childhood wounds and unhealthy relationship patterns -- which was all a result of the painful experience I had with my Twin Flame.

When a Twin Flame partnership doesn't work out, most people are devastated.

I was too, but I was also very grateful for the growth and awareness he brought into my life.  My Twin Flame partnership helped me see things about myself and the way I created relationships that were dysfunctional and unhealthy.  

Also, because of my Twin Flame, I was put on the path of doing my Divine Mission.
The deeper I went into healing myself and uncovering my True Self, the illusions of my life came crashing down.  This was a good thing, because I was finally stepping into a place of truly being free.

I realized how all the relationships in my life were based on who I was programmed to be, rather than who I really was.
This epiphany was shocking to me.  All these years, I thought I knew myself so well, but in reality I wasn't in my power, I wasn't truly honoring my feelings, I wasn't following my intuitions and I wasn't really me.  In all my relationships I saw how I was merely playing a role for others based on who they wanted me to be, who they told me to be, or who they modeled for me to be.  I was weak, disempowered, anxiety and fear ridden, and not truly in my power.


Wishing you the best in love,
The Love Guru Blaire


Not sure where to put my credentials.... maybe as part of the official bio below.  I don't like the bullet points, doesn't look good.

  • B.S., University of Miami
  • M.S., Marriage and Family Therapy from Nova Southeastern University.  Graduated with 4.0 GPA.  2 year full time in-person fully accredited program by the Commission on Accreditation for Marriage and Family Therapy Education (COAMFTE) of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
  • Worked as a matchmaker for Warner Bros TV Show (Change of Heart)
  • Used to work as a Dating Coach (this was before my psychic and healing gifts developed)
  • Planned bachelorette parties, singles and couples events
  • I used to be a Contributing Dating and Relationship Writer for the national magazine, Travelgirl.  Each month, my articles were featured on the front cover and were syndicated to the following media outlets: The Tribune (San Luis Obispo, CA), The Sacramento Bee (Sacramento, CA), The Herald (Rock Hill, SC), The News & Observer (Raleigh, NC), The Fresno Bee (Central California), DailyMe.com, IdahoStatesman.com (Idaho), The Modesto Bee (Modesto, CA), Centre Daily Times (State College, PA), The Bradenton Herald (Bradenton, FL), Sun Herald (Biloxi-Gulfport and South Mississippi, MS), Sun Star (Merced, CA), The News Tribune (Tacoma, WA)

> Clients have cleared issues within 3 months that they've been struggling with for 20 years or more.
> I clear people's anger, anxiety, sadness, loneliness, resentment, frustration and fear, as well as help heal their outworn thought patterns, sabotaging behaviors, old programming, past relationship baggage, dysfunctional relationship patterns, karma, and more.
> I help people heal their blocks and take them to their next level of success in love, work and life.
> I'm also a published author of the book "Do You Know My Husband?® and the 5-part series, "How Aliens Put Me Into Power." 

​Hi! My name is Blaire and I'm known as The Love Guru. I'm a Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic, Medium, Relationship Expert and Marriage and Family Therapist. I am also the creator of Heart Healing, which is a form of emotional healing that opens and heals your heart so you can attract the love, have the relationship and the life that you desire. 

I work with high powered executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities who've experienced career success but their love life's a mess. I teach an easier, more natural, flowing way to attract love to you (rather than having to go out and look for it). It's what I call, "The Spiritual Way To Attract The One."® I am able to clear and heal anything that is blocking you from attracting love and having a successful relationship. Are you struggling with issues in your relationship? Regardless of what anyone may say, I promise you, it's much more than just communication issues! Come discover the deeper meaning as to why your fairytale relationship has turned into an absolute nightmare (and how to fix it)! I've been featured in over 100 media outlets worldwide. The NY Times, LA Times, CNN, MSNBC, Glamour Magazine, The Guardian UK and much more! To work privately with me visit www.loveguru.net to schedule your initial session and assessment.