Removing Criticism, Complaining, and Judgment From My Life

Earlier this week, Spirit brought to my attention three negative things in my life that can be no longer.

I have been told to clean them out of my life immediately.

These three things are criticism, complaining, and judging.
I've nicknamed them "the negative trio"

These three things are really big wammies. Three big mama jammas that are so dominant in our society, that if I wasn't talking or listening about one of them in my conversations, I don't know what we would be talking about.

Sad, I know and hey, if you are anything like me you probably don't think you criticize, complain, or judge all that much. It has been quite an eye opener to me this week.

It's been great. Each time this week when I am in a conversation and one of the "negative trios" enters our discussion, I get a buzzer noise in my ear with the words "there you go again... stop it" from my guides and angels. They like to point out when others do it too and they are guiding me towards new friends who don't share such negativity with the world.

I need to stop it.
It's really time these guys (I'm talking about the negative trio here) leave my life.

So now you're probably wondering why am I sharing this with you.

It's not often - or really at all - ever - that I have openly shared the messages I receive on my blog from Spirit. So if I've never openly shared messages, then why am I sharing them with you now?

Quite simply, I have been guided to.

See as we approach the year 2012, our world is changing.
Our body chemistry is changing, our universe is changing, and our lives are changing.
Part of those changes is a cleaning up of our lives.
A cleaning up of our thoughts.

Why?

Because manifestations are happening faster now and it's important that we think and speak clean words.

What I mean by "clean" words is words that are free from negativity.

If you are criticizing yourself or others...
If you are complaining about yourself, things in your life, or others...
If you are judging yourself, things, or others... you are putting out such disgusting, negative energy into the world.

You are committing violence.

When you spread this ugly energy.
You are also committing abuse.
To yourself and to others.

See, our words have incredible power.
This is such a beautiful thing.
And with the understanding of this concept, our words can either be powerfully healing or powerfully hurting.

When you speak words of criticism, you are committing an act of hatred.

When you speak words filled with complaints, you are bringing your vibration down and spreading ugliness in your world and to those around you.

When you judge, either in your head or out loud, you are committing an act of violence.

All of these are forms of abuse. Verbal abuse to yourself and to others.

Being the Love Guru, I "should" never be criticizing, complaining, or judging and although I don't when I am working with clients, in my private life I do.

I used to view this as being "real" and down to earth but this week Spirit has been showing a whole new way of looking at these things. It's time for me to cut them out of my life.

So as I clean them out of my life, I notice how Spirit has been shifting and reworking the close relationships in my life as well. I've noticed that not only am I to not be criticizing, complaining, or judging but neither are the close relationships that surround me.

It's been an interesting ride.... care to join me?

Wishing you the best in love,

Blaire

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