Spiritual Teacher, Intuitive Heart Healer, Psychic Medium, Relationship Expert, Marriage & Family Therapist

Hi! I'm Blaire and I'm known as The Love Guru.


I work with high-powered executives, entrepreneurs, and celebrities who’ve experienced career success, but their love life's a mess.

If they're single and fed up, I teach them an easier, more natural, flowing way to attract love --- so they don't have to go out and look for it ever again. My method is called, “The Spiritual Way To Attract The One.”®

And if they're in a relationship, but unhappy and struggling, I help them uncover exactly what went wrong and how to fix it -- or to help them leave the relationship with grace and ease, so they never repeat the same issues again (with the same partner or someone new).​

The secret weapon that brings my clients so much success is a unique healing modality, of which I am the creator and founder, called "Heart Healing." It's a form of emotional healing that opens and heals your heart and clears out anger, sadness, frustration, anxiety, loneliness and fear so you can attract the love, have the relationship, and the life you desire.


With this breakthrough approach, I can clear and heal anything and everything that is blocking you from attracting love and having a successful relationship.

I’ve been featured in over 100 media outlets worldwide: The New York Times, T
he Los Angeles Times, CNN, MSNBC, Glamour Magazine, Montel Show, The Guardian UK and much more.

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 About The Love Guru

One of the first questions people usually ask me is, "How did you get into this line of work?" and I'll tell you, this is the work I was brought into the world to do.


Ever since I was young, I was determined to find the "secret formula to find The One."

I was convinced that there was a certain way that you went about finding love, that if followed, would bring great success.

The random advice that most people gave of, "Go date a lot - it's a numbers game" or "one day you'll just meet him" seemed stupid to me and made no sense.


It wasn't until the summer of 2004 when my answer finally arrived!

At the time I was guided to put up a website where I was looking for my husband.  I was ready to get married and was tired of the search. But instead of me doing the work of looking for him, I informed my close friends and family (through the website) that it was now their job to look for "The One" for me.


But instead of the website being private, as it was intended, it ended up going went viral.

Within a few days, I was featured in the New York Times, MSNBC, and fielding calls from VH1 about having my own reality TV Show.

And now, thousands of people were rooting for my success.


So just like I had done in the past, I went back to working hard to find "The One"

I didn't want to let anyone down and I wanted people to be inspired by my search.

But what happened was, I got exhausted.


This is when the The Universe stepped in and showed me the way. 

(I now call this method, "The Spiritual Way To Attract The One®" and teach it to my private clients).
I ended up having three life changing relationships... one right after the next.

All three relationships which The Universe had brought to me with no effort on my part.

All three guys came into my life easily, effortlessly, magically, and naturally.


Then I met "my One."
A man who loved me and I loved him.  From day one we were pretty much married and it was my dream come true.

The relationship lasted 1 1/2 years, and then the flow had left our relationship and I knew it was time to move on, so we broke up.



But, this time, I was a changed woman.

The breakup didn't affect me like others had.

Because I had found my true "One."

"The One" I was always looking for... I had found myself.




(If you'd like to read more about this story,
and to go through your own transformation in love,
​get my book, Do You Know My Husband?®)






After that relationship ended, my first healer entered my life and I started working intensely with her.


I was more intrigued with every session I had.


She shared messages from my guides and did healing work on me (which is very similar to the work I do now) to help me uncover my True Self.


I was healing so many layers of my false self, my psychic and healing gifts started to come alive.


This was a dream come true.


For years I was drawn to psychics. I loved getting readings and I thought "being psychic" was soo cool.

Little did I know, I was a psychic and healer too.​​


After a few years of healing and getting to know my True Self, I used my method to attract the man I was to marry.

He was a sexy, wealthy Englishman, and our connection was incredible.

Flights back and forth to England, trips across Europe... now I was living the glamorous international lifestyle I had always dreamed about.


Not long after we got together, my fairytale relationship turned into an absolute nightmare.

There would be days of pure love and bliss, followed by days of  disconnection, misunderstandings, boredom, and confusion.

Even though I was in a relationship, and in a relationship with the perfect guy - I found myself feeling incredibly lonely and alone.


But I was in love, and I wanted it to work, so I was determined to figure out what went wrong. 

At this time, I was in graduate school studying to become a Marriage and Family Therapist.

I had access to tons of information on how to fix couples in distress.

But with every tool and technique I used NONE OF IT WORKED and I was feeling more frustrated and alone!

So once again, I turned to The Universe and went deeper into my spirituality.


I learned that we were having problems in our relationship because of unhealed childhood wounds.

(This is the other area of work I do. If you're struggling in your relationship, I can help you.)

So as I was working on myself diligently with my healer, but my husband couldn't get on board.

He oscillated from mocking my attempts at trying to fix us, to telling me I was analyzing too much, to once in awhile scheduling a session with my healer.


After several months of dealing with this, I told him I was done.

He packed his bags and returned to England vowing to work on himself, so he could become a better man.


Eventually, we did get back together.

Now he was on his spiritual path and I had gone deeper on mine.

At this time, we also transformed our soulmate relationship into a Twin Flame partnership (the highest level of spiritual relationship), but it was too late for us. We were now on different paths. 


I had outgrown him and our relationship.

From all the spiritual growth and healing work I had done on myself, I was now a completely different person.

I had a new vision for the type of man and relationship I wanted in my life.


The experience I had with my ex-husband helped me see how I created relationships that were unhealthy and in reaction to my unhealed childhood wounds.

I realized that I had attracted and created relationships that were based off of who I was programmed to be, rather than who I really was.

In these relationships, I wasn't in my power.

I wasn't honoring my feelings.

I wasn't following my intuitions, and I was weak.

I was playing a role.

And I wasn't really me.


Although society teaches us that we should find that "One" special person and hold onto them forever...

I have found that an empowered person is one who is able to honor themselves, honors their path, and flow with life's changes with grace and ease.







So tell me…

  • Would you like to get to the root cause of your love life issues?  (even if that's getting to the root cause of WHY you're not in a relationship?)

  • Are you tired of being single -- and would like to learn how to attract "The One?

  • Have you been in a traumatic or an unhappy relationship and don't want to experience that same pain or repeat those same patterns again?



Get started today by scheduling an Initial Consult

You'll get clarity and awareness with the very first session.
You’ll also get spiritual teachings, channeled guidance, heart healings and practical steps.


  • Yes! I can help you attract The One.

  • Yes! I can help you heal outworn thought patterns, old programming, sabotaging behaviors, and childhood wounds.

  • Yes! I can help you heal sadness, anger, anxiety, frustration, resentment and fear.

  • Yes! I can help you discover your True Self

  • Yes! I can help you heal sadness, anger, anxiety, frustration, resentment and fear.

  • Yes! I can help you discover your True Self.

  • Yes! I can help you become empowered in your relationships (and your life).

  • ​​Yes! I can help you upgrade your life.

  • Yes! I can help you become a better version of You!

  • Yes! I can help you with all of these... and much more.



Click here to schedule your Initial Consult

I look forward to guiding you.


Wishing you the best in love,
The Love Guru Blaire